Women, Naturally Better Leaders In Times Of Crisis And Beyond
Leadership lessons men can learn from women
Posted on 05-11-2020, Read Time: Min
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This article sets out some data and reasons for women leaders to be not only viewed equal to men but, in some cases, recognise their superior natural leadership skills. In this way, I suggest we can begin to counter the built-in bias which has led to generations of lower representation of female leaders in organisations and governments across the globe.
Since 2008, LeaderShape Global has been collating and analysing results from our Leadership and Emotional Intelligence Performance Accelerator (LEIPA®), 360-feedback tool. Over this period, we have identified key emotional intelligence attributes related to excellent leadership, where women score statistically significantly better than men. This data was initially published in a white paper in 2016.
Comparing the mean Difference Index scores of men against those of women showed that women fared better in 15 of the 19 Capabilities as shown in the chart below.

In the four Emotional Intelligence (EI) Capabilities where men scored better were Emotional Self-control, Self-confidence, Accurate Self-Assessment and Adaptability (although the last one is not statistically significant). The key EI Capabilities where women scored better included Service Orientation and Developing Others but also Change Catalyst, Transparency, Empathy and Inspirational Leadership.
Although women scored better than men in other capabilities too, the results were not statistically significant.
In EI terms, the male strengths cluster in the areas categorized under Self-awareness and Self-management, those of women under Social awareness and Relationship management, demonstrating that on average women tend to be better at dealing with people.
So, what is it about these capabilities that correlate to women leading more effectively through the crisis? What does this tell us about our need to enable more women leaders to come to the fore?
It is interesting to consider the data around the death rates from Covid-19 as of 12 April 2020, in female-led countries during the current coronavirus crisis.

Data from the European Centre for Disease Control as of April 12, 2020 - 20-FIRST
In the majority of comparatively rich male-led countries, the fatality rates are significantly higher than in these countries. One can point to smaller populations and easier containment in some of these countries, but not all, Germany being a case in point.
What do the actions of these women leaders tell us about the nature and value of female leadership? As a recent Forbes Magazine* article suggests there are key attributes that these leaders have adopted:
Truth – Angela Merkel was bold with the truth from the start (no denials from her), that this was a very serious outbreak and could develop to have a massive impact on the German population and economy. So, the testing and tracing were accepted and stages of disbelief and non-compliance were minimised. Truth correlates directly to the capability of transparency in our table.
Decisiveness – Tsai Ing-wen acted rapidly and decisively at the first indications of this new illness, implementing 124 measures immediately that avoided a lockdown or explosion of cases. Taiwan is now at the forefront of sending masks to other more adversely affected countries. These actions resonate with the attributes of Change Catalyst and Achievement Orientation.
Jacinda Ardern, the New Zealand Prime Minister, also executed a rapid response that was effective in locking down and explaining the reasons for her vision for the immediate and decisive response. Here, her words and example not only resonate with the attributes mentioned above of Tsai Ing-wen but she also showed Inspirational Leadership and Empathy for her countrymen.
Technology - Sanna Marin (the youngest leader of all) and Katrín Jakobsdóttir, of Finland and Iceland respectively, both embraced new technology. Iceland has driven testing on a scale beyond other countries to create a template for the spread and tracking of the disease so as to avoid lockdown, shutting schools and other impacts. In Finland, social media influencers have been harnessed to spread fact-based information, recognising not everyone follows traditional news channels. These two leaders demonstrate not only the previously mentioned attributes, but also Service Orientation and Developing Others. In service of their countries they pushed testing and media boundaries. Thereby creating a drive to develop the skills of those in the community and on social media to address the needs of the country in a new way.
Love – Erna Solberg of Norway reached out with empathy and concern to the children of her country, inviting them to ask questions and speak to her directly on television, responding directly to their questions and assuaging their fears.
Comparing these real-life examples of empathy, transparency, embracing change, and inspirational leadership throws into stark relief the actions of some of the male leaders of other nations, where arrogance, the blame of others, and overweening self-confidence have resulted in a period of denial which, in turn, resulted in less decisive action being taken. Perhaps they thought they would have looked weak or frightened to respond as women leaders did? This is a perennial challenge for leaders, especially those driven by their ego and therefore susceptible to popularity polls and ‘optics.’ And, as we can see, these are more frequently men.
So, what are the lessons for women leaders?
These findings reflect a recent HBR article** about the leadership lessons men can learn from women:
- Play to your strengths. Empathy can enable you to take information on board, be transparent and through that bolster achievement, enabling making the right decisive calls.
- Know your weaknesses. Knowing when you don’t know, rather than feeling you have to have all the answers is crucial as then you can take on board advice from a variety of experts and adapt to changing data without any sense of loss of (false) authority.
- Motivate and inspire. Women lead best through offering a route to transformation. They align people with purpose and meaning rather than reward and threat. When people feel engaged and that they are contributing, they give more discretionary effort and are more productive (see: Productivity White Paper) . Women’s territory of hearts and souls, as well as minds, are the key to achievement, as beliefs drive behaviours.
- Unlock potential. Women’s demonstrable strengths (from our table) in developing others and having a service orientation, translates into unlocking potential in the whole team and workforce, rather than focussing energies on self-aggrandisement.
- Empathise. As HBR** says: “twenty-first century leadership demands that leaders establish an emotional connection with their followers”. Despite any future changes from automation and AI, so long as humans are involved, they need appreciation, recognition and understanding, especially if they are to embrace rather than resist the introduction of new technology. All of these areas of empathy come more naturally to women than men.
- Be a talent agent. Women are more likely to invest in developing, coaching and promoting their employees. They are also more likely to hire more diverse teams and those who may be more skilled than they are themselves. All of these factors create a development and growth environment, leading to more success, and high performing teams.
- Be humble. The lower self-confidence levels shown in our surveys, show up as greater humility. This attribute, when combined with a growth mindset allows women to really learn from experience and apply the learning in the future. However, it is important that women develop a greater inner self-assurance, at least partly by acknowledging the contribution they can make as leaders.
And what is the key lesson for men?
Value the attributes of women leaders and see them as the strengths they are. Adopt those capabilities where you have further development potential and harness (hire more!) women leaders to bring more of these strengths into being in the workplaces and hallways of power of tomorrow.
Developing these ways of leading are key components of what we term ‘Transpersonal Leadership’ and a pathway is available for anyone who wishes to do so, both through our book ‘Leading Beyond the Ego – How to Become a Transpersonal Leader’ and/or through becoming or working with an accredited Transpersonal Leadership Coach.
References:
Developing these ways of leading are key components of what we term ‘Transpersonal Leadership’ and a pathway is available for anyone who wishes to do so, both through our book ‘Leading Beyond the Ego – How to Become a Transpersonal Leader’ and/or through becoming or working with an accredited Transpersonal Leadership Coach.
References:
- *https://www.forbes.com/sites/avivahwittenbergcox/2020/04/13/what-do-countries-with-the-best-coronavirus-reponses-have-in-common-women-leaders/#6ed17e0d3dec
- **https://hbr.org/2020/04/7-leadership-lessons-men-can-learn-from-women
Author Bio
Danielle Grant is a Director of LeaderShape Global with many years' experience coaching and facilitating programs at CEO and Director level and co-author of LEADING BEYOND THE EGO: How To Become A Transpersonal Leader. A former businesswoman, she is a thought leader in blended learning methodologies. Visit www.leadershapeglobal.com Connect Danielle Grant Follow @LeaderShapeUK |
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