Stop Waiting To Have The Life You Desire

Top 3 tips on how to start creating

Have you ever written a wish list? Have you ever said, “I wish I had a million dollars?” Or, “I wish I was in a relationship?” The problem with wishes is that you can spend your whole life waiting for things to change and waiting for things to get better, but they never do. Never wait, always create. Action is required now to change anything. It’s not going to happen if you wait, wish, or imagine. So rather than wishing and rather than waiting, start looking for the choices that are available that you can choose right now and begin to actively change things.
 

What do you desire as your life? If you woke up tomorrow morning and had everything you desired, what would that be? Whatever that is, start moving towards that today. Throw away that wish list. Start a create list and get going!
 
Here are my top 3 tips on how to stop waiting and start creating:

Have you ever really asked yourself what it is YOU desire? Most of us look at the people around us, what they are choosing, what they say is valuable and what they say we should want. But these choices aren’t your choices and therefore don’t apply to your life and your desires.
 
Stop looking at what others say you should desire and be honest with yourself. What is it that you would like? If you could have, do and be anything, what would you choose? Once you are clear on what you desire, then you can begin to create it.

How much are you committed to your life? What percent? If you are only 20% committed to your life or to your business, do you really think it’s going to work out like you would like it to? Probably not.
 
Commitment to your life doesn’t mean putting yourself in a strait jacket or being set on one particular path forever. It means never giving up, never giving in and never quitting. Are you willing to commit to you? Are you willing to never give up on you?
 
Committing to you is about being willing to have an adventure of living, to keep choosing what works for you, even if it is uncomfortable, and even if that means making changes and choices that no one else (including your partner, your family and friends) understands.
 
Committing to you can take you beyond your comfort zone, especially as most of us are well trained in giving up what we would truly like to choose in order to fit with everyone else. You have to be willing to be as different as you actually are, no matter what anyone else thinks, says or does.

Create is an action word. For things to show up, acting is required. What if you woke up every morning and asked, “If I were creating the life I desire, what would I choose?” And, “What action is required today to create the life I desire right away?”
 
When you ask questions, don’t look for an answer. Look for a sense of awareness instead. What is awareness? It means using your intuition, that place where you know something so strongly, even if you don’t have all of the facts and information. Awareness is one of your greatest strengths.
 
When you ask questions such as, “What action is required?” you will create a sense of awareness. Something will pop, whether that be an idea or a person to talk to. Whatever it is, do it.
 
Wishlists, waiting to win the lottery, waiting for Mr. or Mrs. Right or whatever you are waiting for, will always keep things in a distant, unattainable future. Stop waiting! Get clear on what you desire, commit to it and take action. This is YOUR life. This is not a dry run. If you practice these things, you will stop waiting to have the life you desire and you will start to live it.
 

Simone Milasas is an international speaker and author of Joy of Business and Getting Out of Debt Joyfully. She is an acclaimed business and life mentor, and travels the world facilitating seminars with Access Consciousness. A lady who knows how to be a woman, Simone revels in the joy of future opportunity and knows that the prospect of possibility resides in every choice you make. Visit www.accessjoyofbusiness.com Follow @simonemilasas