Decisions are the crucial part for our lives, because it is exactly what helps us to build our careers and our lives accordingly. Thus, trying to find and choose from the innumerable paths that life has to throw upon you can be an intimidating task, and thus some kind of emotional disorder might take over you and cloud your judgements. And when your thoughts a blocked, you will have nothing to deal with, thus making the situation all the more messy and troublesome. All these information might seem overwhelming to you, but don't worry. We are not here to make it all the more impossible for you to take decisions, but we are here to guide you to the right direction, so read on.
Let us first take in hand as to what might happen if we take bad decisions in our life? We might completely ruin it, we might feel like we are left out in the end, we might run into some trouble, we might find ourselves to be surrounded in a tricky situation, but there is one thing is common, when we were discussing about what might happen, do you have any clue what that is? Let us help you out with this one too, we were constantly emphasizing on the word ‘might'. Actually we never know what will happen if we take a decision. Yes, now we decide to jump off the high cliff, that is bad decision, then you suddenly plan that you want to swim with the sharks even when you don't know how to swim, now, that we can say is a terrible decision, even before you go out to buy some swimming trunks. No, these silly things are not our concern as of now, what we are talking is since we do not know what the future holds for us, and then why fear? And there is always a point in which you can either turnback or walk ahead. It all sounds like, we do not understand your situation and it is all in theory, but believe you us, when we say this that we have all come across such a situation at some point of time.
You might be thinking that, how to know what is right for us, right? To this we have one simple answer, and that is doing whatever your heart desires. If you want to actually jump and swim in ice cold water, go do it, but make sure that there is a towel and a body warmer somewhere near, because you will need it. So unlike all those dare-devils who would blatantly suggest that you must listen to your heart and you must do whatever you want, we on the other hand although encourage you to do whatever your heart wants, but we also recommend that you have back up. The best way to decide about something is to think about the situation when your head is clear of all judgements and when you are in a fresh mind. Overworking your brain will only yield poor results.
The Author is associated with The Trivedi Effect and has written many articles on positive thinking, inability to make decisions, emotional disorders, low self-confidence and sleep disorders etc.