Recognize This! – Give your family a great present this year – leave your work stress at work.

Do you take your work home with you? Because if you do, that’s not okay.

I’m not talking about the occasional project you need to finish up, or the email you just need to get through. No, I mean the much more insidious effect of bringing your work problems home.

Research reported on MSNBC discussed how bad bosses affect far more than your work life:

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“While the employees with bad bosses didn’t report problems with their families, their spouses often did. Bad bosses led to more blow-ups between husbands and wives and to families that didn’t communicate well and weren’t close.

“What’s happening, Carlson said, is that employees think they’re leaving their problems behind in the office, but they’re really just playing them out at home…”

The concerning element here is the employees thinks they’re leaving their problems at work. Spouses beg to differ – and are taking the brunt of the impact.

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“There’s a tendency for people to think they can tough it out for the sake of the family, Carlson said. But this study, she said, ‘shows the importance of trying to remove yourself from a situation like this because it’s not just hurting you, it’s hurting your [spouse] and your kids.’”

And remember, this doesn’t just affect your family at home. Other research shows your spouse takes this negative emotion into his or her own workplace as well.

Bosses, I ask of you – don’t be a holiday Grinch. Read through some of my older pieces on what employees need from you to better their work experience. Their kids and spouses (and spouses’ bosses) will thank you.