By John Kenworthy
Trust is leader's and a networker's bankroll. With trust, he or she is solvent, without it, he or she is bankrupt.
A trusted networker, like a trusted leader, has a thick bankroll of crisp bills. Every time you act inconsistently with your professed values, or break a promise, you must spend some of those crisp bills - when the bankroll is gone, so is the trust that others have in you. At this point, your personal appeals or persuasive arguments cannot buy back that trust. Once lost, trust, and the personal credibility it took to gain it, may take years to regain.
Trust & Credibility Trust is much more than credibility.
Credibility is a necessary precursor to trust - before someone will place their trust in you, they have to believe in you. Trust is when a person places something of value to them into your care an stewardship because they believe that you will take good care and, usually, return to them something of greater value.
As a leader, the 'something' may be as obviously important as life - a military leader for example. It may be time or skills or an idea for a business leader. Whatever the situation, we place our trust in the leader. In turn, the leader trust you to deliver on your promise. The relationship is established beforehand, the leader's credibility has been established and the result of this 'transaction' may reinforce or destroy trust.
In networking, the same rules apply. You might offer to introduce someone to a business opportunity. As the initiator, you must trust the person to be capable or risk your personal credibility and the trust your opportunity has in you. The individual you are introducing will also trust that you will genuinely do as you say and that it is a legitimate opportunity. Trust is a two-way street.
Establishing Trust. 1.
Be honest and open The top leadership attribute of most admired leaders in Kouzes and Posner's comprehensive survey is honesty. This isn't just about telling the truth, it is also 'doing what you say you will do'. And, it's worth noting that honesty does not always imply that the truth is to your own liking nor the action something with which you agree......READ THE ENTIRE ARTICLE HERE!
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